Replace our in-house tracing for sql integration so it uses otelsql instead. We're getting more details and tracing on the driver level.
Notes:
I had to patch the library, as it caches too eagerly the trace provider, which result in never having it available in time as we always start the db before the rest in our main() functions.
sqlhooks probably needs to be patched, as it's missing one of the few optional methods and using it with otelsql.Open yields some issues. That being said it's highly probable that we end up not needing it at all because otelsql would handle everything.
Fixed by wrapping the driver.
Once we have looked at the metrics being exported, we may possibly remove entirely the sqlhooks. For the time being, it's a good first iteration as it is (though it comes with a bit a juggling around interfaces).
