insights: added graphQL arguments to filter an insights query

Created by: coury-clark

Closes #23236 (closed)

Adds a very basic regex filtering to the current insights GraphQL query that operates on include / exclude. The performance isn't amazing because this doesn't reduce the cross-join happening, but it isn't significantly worse (marginally worse on my laptop).

I have some tests on another branch that for some reason are behaving weirdly. I wanted to get this out to unblock the frontend folks and will add those back in tomorrow.